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• #BIFF NAKED HOW TO#

I used to take things very seriously and very hard when I was younger. In terms of the responsibility thing I think I still would have been really outspoken, regardless of the kind of job I had. I can go on a power walk in Regina and no one follows me around with a camera, granted I wear a baseball cap and long sleeve shirt you know, but I’m still really fortunate. She can’t go to the grocery store- she will never have that life, ever. If Britney Spears is an example, I don’t see anything wrong with her.

Ultimately I know that when you are an artist, whatever kind of artist, painter or writer, people will start to listen to what you say and want to emulate you somehow. It’s the best book I’ve ever read in my life. There is a book called The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans. I think the best thing women can do is read. And so often physicians up here tend to prescribe anti-depressants before they refer to a psychologist. But a lot of women in Canada don’t want to seek out therapy, its not part of our culture as it is in the United States. I find that there are a lot of things that can help empower women.

#BIFF NAKED HOW TO#

I’ve never dated in my life so I don’t know how to do that and am quite resonant anyways. And finally for the first time I’ve been alone for over a year. And so often I find women blame themselves probably because society blames them and families blame them. And then she finds she is 32 and has no healthy relationships in her history. Then she gets into the next relationship with a new guy who is not physically abusive or psychologically abusive but perhaps in a covert, passive aggressive way he is emotionally abusive. And the woman is so grateful to not be with a hitter, she will stay in a psychologically abusive relationship instead. So hidden problems that the new man has will resurface and control a battered female, whether he is psychologically abusive or controlling or belittling or demeaning in general. So if one guy is a hitter and once a woman extracts herself from a physical relationship, the next man who extends any kindness towards her, she falls for him right away and she is like a sponge soaking up any kindness even if it's common courtesy. And as adults we start becoming repeat enablers and the problem is we have no healthy relationships in our background so we have no basis of comparing. And the problem that we women have is whenever we started getting into relationships, when we were young, either forced or otherwise, we developed our own romance patterns. It’s awful and it’s been a problem for years.